Treatments Overview

Tatiana Aitken giving tantric bodywork and tantric massage session hands on body

Who is the treatment for?

I work with men, women and couples. Tantric bodywork and massage is equally suitable for those who wish to heal from trauma, make positive changes in their lives, or explore sensuality and sexuality in a safe space.

Not everyone is looking for healing, and these sessions are also suitable to those who want to relax and open up to more pleasure.

I offer both clothes-on and clothes-off sessions and will meet you wherever you are on your journey with love and respect.

Clothes-on sessions

Tatiana Aitken giving tantric therapy session to female clientThese are suitable for those who are new to tantric bodywork or are not comfortable exposing parts of their body. If you have suffered from sexual abuse you may feel that a clothes-on treatment is a safer place to start. The format of the session is the same and the healing effects are equally powerful. There is no direct genital touch in clothes-on sessions.

Clothes-off sessions

These are suitable to those wishing to receive bodywork and a massage to their full naked body. Clothes-off sessions include the offer to receive a prostate/ lingam massage for men and a yoni massage for women.  For more information, please see treatments for men / treatments for women.

Please note that the therapy is not a form of sexual service, nor is it focused on the genital organs; instead, it is a healing modality designed to treat the whole being and is not the same as some of the Tantric themed massaged offered which focus on providing sexual stimulation.

Treatment can help with the below

(For healing sexual trauma and dysfunction, and gender specific sessions, please see treatments for men, treatments for women and treatments for couples)Tantric therapy connection rituals


  • Low self-esteem/ feeling inadequate
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Addictions/ compulsions
  • Body image issues
  • “Inability” to feel
  • Feeling insecure
  • Difficulty speaking the truth


  • Relationships
  • Sensitivity
  • Ability to feel pleasure
  • Ability to relax
  • Access to the body’s capacity for self-healing
  • Ability to give and receive love
  • Motivation and interest in life
  • Energy levels

How it works

Tantric bodywork therapy helps you to become more in touch with your body by helping you to stay more conscious in the present moment. You are then invited to use the tools of breath, sound, movement and body awareness to access and consciously feel those sensations which have been suppressed. Combined with receiving loving touch from the therapist, this gives the opportunity for the brain to form new neural networks, re-wiring the responses to past memories and providing a powerful tool for self-transformation.

De-armouring, or deep-tissue massage, techniques can help with getting rid of tension and toxins, removing blocks, releasing negative memories, beliefs and emotions by helping to open up the body’s natural energy pathways. This helps the healing life force to flow through the whole body unobstructed.

Tatiana Aitken giving tantric massage to male clientEveryone is at a different place on their journey and you are able to decide as the client what you want from each session.

For more information, please see the home page

Available treatments

Click here for treatments for men

Click here for treatments for women

Click here for treatments for couples

Treatment structure

A treatment is usually 5-6 hours long and includes some, or all, of the following stages:

  • Consultation
  • Shower
  • Meditation
  • Connection rituals
  • Massage
  • Time to relax, shower and assimilate your experience

Each session is tailored to each individual’s unique requirements and is held in a safe and loving space. You are not required to participate in anything you do not wish to do and may stop, or pause the session at any time.


For treatments in Teesside/ North Yorkshire (I am based on the border of the two counties near Saltburn-by-the-Sea):

£250 for one session

£650 for 3 sessions (to be used in a 12 month period)

For treatments in London (Hammersmith):

£350 for one session

£950 for 3 sessions (to be used in a 12 month period)

Please note shorter or longer sessions may be available by request. Some concessions available for the low waged, please ask.

“Tatiana is a skilled practitioner with strong intuition, deep love and compassion and a true professional. She has unbelievable physical strength combined with loving tenderness in just the right proportions. She is very open and easy to talk to, and this is highly useful in promoting learning from the experience.” Marc H

“Tatiana is a brilliant, skilful practitioner. She is the most caring and compassionate person I have ever worked with and her skills were so intuitive, loving and holding. The space Tatiana held was so safe it enabled me to be fully seen for the first time in my life, and allowed me to release pain and deep trauma that I have been holding all my life and all the time she held a loving, safe and giving space. Tatiana was such a skilled guide, helping me to process really deep things and giving me permission, guidance and reassurance all the way though, which now have given me a map for in areas of challenge, and a knowing how to handle things in this area.” Anon.