How to Bridge the Orgasm Gap in Heterosexual Relationships
The “orgasm gap” refers to the significant difference in the frequency of orgasms experienced by men and women during sexual activity, particularly in heterosexual relationships....
Redefining Intimacy: Embracing a Sex-Positive Mindset
Our Evolving Culture: Embracing Being Sex-Positive Our culture is gradually shifting toward a more sex-positive outlook. This change means viewing sex and sexuality as natural,...
From Loss to Bliss: Tantra After Prostatectomy
A client shares his experience of having a prostatectomy operation. Understanding the Impact of the Prostatectomy on Intimacy In April 2018, I discovered that I...
Polyvagal Theory in Somatic Therapy
In this Guest Blog, Candy at Arras Healing explores the basics of Polyvagal Theory and how we can incorporate these teachings into somatic therapy. What...
10 Powerful Tips for Managing Anxiety
Anxiety is a natural and common response we all experience when facing perceived threats. It activates the body’s survival system — preparing us to either...
Mindful Touching: How Sensate Focus Deepens Connection
Sensate Focus is a proven technique created in the 1960s by Masters and Johnson. It helps couples shift away from performance-driven intimacy toward mindful, sensory...
Embracing the Shadow: A Somatic Path to Wholeness
The term Shadow was brought into Western psychology by Carl Jung, who expanded on ideas developed by Sigmund Freud. For Jung, the Shadow is not...
What Causes Anorgasmia in Women?
Anorgasmia is the medical term for the inability to have an orgasm, or for taking a long time to reach orgasm after ample sexual stimulation,...
Finding Safety: Somatic Sex Therapy for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse
Male rape and sexual abuse is far more common than many people realise. According to Safeline, an organisation dedicated to working with men who have...
Gratitude as Therapy: Supporting Emotional and Physical Healing
In somatic sex therapy — also known as tantric healing — much of the focus is on releasing stress and tension. But healing also needs...