Men
I offer two main pathways: tantric massage and somatic sex therapy. Whilst there is some overlap, tantric massage focuses more on expanding pleasure and using tantric techniques, whereas somatic sex therapy supports difficulties with arousal, sexual dysfunction, or emotional and relationship issues.
For an overview, please see the tantric massage and somatic sex therapy pages.
Tantric Massage for Men
Sessions can include:
- Expanding capacity for pleasure and arousal
- Tantric techniques, such as Semen Retention
- Learning to separate orgasm from ejaculation
- Lingam massage, prostate massage and testicle massage as part of a full body treatment
- Addressing ED, PE or IE linked to stress, tension or overthinking, without necessarily needing deeper therapeutic work
These sessions focus on moving sexual energy through the body, so ejaculation is not offered during the lingam massage.
Somatic Sex Therapy for Men
Many men experience sexual difficulties at different stages of life. These can arise from medication, stress, lifestyle, tension in the body (especially in the pelvic area), or emotional factors such as upbringing, cultural messages or past experiences, even those that may not seem linked to sexuality.
It is common for men to have been brought up to hide their feelings, which can create disconnection from intimacy, pleasure, and the body. Sensuality is often seen as “feminine”, leaving some men unsure how to relax into their own arousal or feel safe expressing it.
It is also far more common than people realise for men to have experienced sexual abuse — with charities such as Safeline reporting figures as high as 1 in 5. Many never speak about their experiences, while their bodies and relationships continue to carry the impact.
Somatic sex therapy can help to explore sexuality in a safe, shame-free space. We use different approaches and work together to help you identify the underlying causes for any difficulties you are experiencing, and find a way forward.
Sexual Difficulties Men Commonly Face that Sessions Can Address
- Erectile dysfunction
- Premature ejaculation
- Inhibited ejaculation
- Prostate massage as therapy
- Pornography addiction
- Sexual shame
- Low desire/ arousal
- Low physical sensation
- Circumcision trauma
- Performance anxiety
- Recovering from sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual inexperience or lack of confidence
- Recovery after prostatectomy
Somatic Sex Therapy is offered as either clothes on or clothes off. For the session structures and prices, please see the Somatic Sex Therapy page.
If you are experiencing difficulties with your relationship, please see the For Couples page.
Sessions are available in Teesside, London and online.
What Clients Say
“Tatiana is an amazing human being and a compassionate, caring and extremely skilled professional body worker. The massage she offered me was one of the best I have ever received, and I had quite a few over the years. I had several very intense emotional moments during the session. Tatiana was simply amazing at holding the space, feeling my energy, opening up to meet my emotions and feeling exactly what I needed in each moment. I was astonished by how profoundly and beautifully she was able to do all that. I wholeheartedly recommend Tatiana to anyone wanting to experience a deep, connected, aware and fully present massage.” Warmest hugs, Michael
“When I first spoke to Tatiana on the phone, her warmth, professionalism and deep listening were immediately clear. I felt understood and treated with genuine respect, and knew right away she was the practitioner I wanted to see. I’ve never regretted that decision. Her safe space comes from the heart, and every conversation feels natural and supportive. Working with her has helped me break down long-held barriers and make remarkable progress with premature ejaculation and sensitivity issues. I’ve been able to stay present in my body in ways I never thought possible, with far more pleasure and awareness than before. I can’t thank her enough” Paul Campbell, South Lanarkshire, Public Sector
“I thoroughly recommend Tatiana as a practitioner who is skilful, intuitive, compassionate and deeply present. Working with her has helped me release trauma I had been carrying for years. She is exceptional” Marc T Hommel
“Tatiana provided an experience that was entirely professional and full of care at all stages – from initial contact by email and phone and throughout the actual session. I was well informed and she enabled me to very quickly feel connected, safe and secure in her care. In the session, through discussion, touch and massage, Tatiana skilfully put me at ease to relax mentally and in my body, which then gave rise to a range and depth of sensations that I have not previously experienced and enjoyed. I was left with an overwhelming and lasting sense of love, peace and joy.” Malcolm, Whitby