A combination of tantric massage, mindfulness, and bodywork, this holistic therapy works with the whole body, mind and sexual energy in a powerful way. Get support with sexual dysfunction issues such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and vaginismus, relax and open up to more pleasure. Learn to re-direct sexual energy through the body. Heal from sexual and other traumas. Read more about what tantric treatments can help with.
The therapy beautifully blends ancient wisdom and techniques from Tantric and Taoist traditions with modern knowledge in neuroscience and biochemistry. Lingam massage and prostate massage are offered as part of the treatment to those in male bodies. Yoni massage is offered to those in female bodies. Read about the benefits of prostate massage, and the art of Yoni massage.
Different techniques, such as de-armouring and the use of touch and dialogue, are used to help you release tensions, stresses and trauma from the body. This allows energy to flow more freely to enable you to feel more pleasure and joy in your body and life. There are opportunities to learn tools and techniques to practice in, and outside of, the sessions to help you on your journey.
Sessions are suitable for both individuals and couples. See here for tantric treatments for men, tantric treatments for women, tantric treatments for couples and retreats.
Heal Sexual Dysfunction
For hundreds of years, Western cultures have tended to have a negative attitude towards the body, sensuality and sexuality. Although this is changing, many of us today still subconsciously accept the messages that pleasure is wrong, leading to an epidemic of pleasure limitation. We often feel that sexual energy is something to feel guilty and ashamed about. Many of us learn to numb out pleasure in the genitals and whole pelvic area as a result.
Sexual dysfunction is common in our culture. Symptoms can include erectile issues, difficulties with ejaculation, inability or difficulty to have orgasms for women, pain during sex, low self-esteem, sexual shutting down, inability to feel pleasure, difficulties with intimacy, and porn addiction, amongst others.
Tantric massage therapy is an opportunity to receive support on your journey of sexual healing.
Healing trauma by opening up to more pleasure
All of us have had at least some overwhelming experiences in life, often in childhood, that feel like something is too much, too fast, or too soon for us. This can be from big, single events, or more often on a cumulative basis from the stresses of everyday life. When we are not able to fully feel or express our responses to these events, the charge which builds up in the nervous system can get stuck there for years, even decades. Over time, a nervous system which is not able to complete the cycle and de-activate, becomes over-sensitised. This can lead to gradual worsening of a whole host of symptoms. These can include depression, anxiety, panic, self-criticism, compulsive behaviours, sexual dysfunction, dissociation, numbness, helplessness and feeling trapped, amongst others.
Tantric bodywork and tantric massage techniques help to access, start to let go of and integrate some of these powerful sensations and emotions. At the same time practitioners help clients to build up positive sensations of safety and well-being in the body. This is done through coaching clients in the use of powerful tools such as breath, body awareness, sound and movement. By healing the dis-regulated nervous system, you are able to start to open up to more pleasure, love and joy in your life. Read about the healing benefits of erotic touch.
“Tatiana is the most skillful practitioner I have ever known. She holds the space with such care, compassion and safety that it allows whatever needs to come up to come up. Tatiana can hold really challenging emotions with such skill, and the safety that you need, coupled with such profound gentleness and compassion. Tatiana is an immense gift to the world, and to me and I have found the work she does so deeply healing and nourishing. I wish I had worked with Tatiana years ago!” Anon.
“Tatiana has an amazing touch, calm and confident, her words full of care and wisdom. Her session broke walls and opened myself up for new experiences, and was enriching from beginning to end.” Software engineer from Gateshead
“I have had a number of sessions with Tatiana now starting way back. I honestly thought nobody would be able to help me with my problems so suffered in silence for over three years. However I contacted Tatiana & from my very first telephone enquiry I was made to feel welcome. Tatiana offered me a safe space to talk about my problems & she listened & listened without judgment. Tatiana made it so easy for me to talk & open up about my problems then she offered various treatments which have improved my life 100%. I honestly can’t praise Tatiana Aitken highly enough. Thank you Tatiana for giving me my life back.” Shaun